You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than love.
Many folks are fond of loving when it’s convenient, when it’s sweet, when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship.
After then, you’ll realise that the feelings have dropped, it’ll now be your responsibility to make it work, not love responsibility.
Listen, Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it’s never always about love alone.. it requires commitment, intelligence and determination even in marriage.Everyone falls, sleep, bend, stand, and sit in love because it takes little or no effort to do that but STAYING IN LOVE AND BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP?
Only the strong and committed ones do that. That’s why we must find that one person and commit to the person through an intentional discipline of self and also bridling of emotions.
Building a relationship is hard work, it’s like building a career, it’s like pursuing a dream. It’s always tough, at some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together and scale through the trying times by being focused and committed.
The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong! Be self disciplined.
Sticking to one person is not natural, you must develop yourself to do that.
It works great and perfect with people of like minds, people of the same believes, people that share the same school of thought.
Build yourselfBe DisciplinedStay Committed and Trust GodIt works for the like minds.
Stay safe and stay Alive
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